Embarking on a personal voyage of enjoyment and self-exploration is a thrilling pursuit. In this exploration, we venture into the realm of techniques for male masturbation, where the possibilities are limitless. Get ready to immerse yourself in a realm where pleasure steals the spotlight, as we lead you through a world of possibilities that enhance your solo experiences.
How Often Should You Masturbate?
Well, there’s no definite answer to that. People’s bodies and routines are different. And too much or too little masturbating does little to no impact on the body — aside from exhaustion.
So, all-in-all, it depends on the situation. Men ejaculate 4-7 times per month on average. However, excess ejaculation is said to have no detrimental effects for those that do more than that. Meanwhile, according to a study from European Urology, men who ejaculate at least 21 or more times per month are 50% less likely to develop prostate cancer. So, frequent masturbation can reduce health risks as well.
Masturbation is a form of relief. So you shouldn’t pressure yourself to live up to the standards. And instead, focus on what your body needs at the moment. Tips To Enhance Your Masturbation Experience
Set the Mood
Setting the mood for your walking session can significantly enhance the experience. Masturbation is an opportunity to have an experience for yourself. If you desire a touch of romance, consider dimming the lights in your bedroom or introducing the gentle glow of scented candles. The key lies in crafting the right ambiance, so don't hesitate to invest a bit more effort. Elevate your self-indulgent moments to unprecedented heights.
Vary Your Positions
Shifting positions during sex can add excitement and a touch of sensuality. Apply this principle when you masturbate as well. Instead of sticking to one position, experiment with standing, sitting up, or perhaps leaning against a wall.
Explore diverse possibilities to make your solo play just as enjoyable as those with a partner.
Explore Your Body
Speaking of possibilities, go out of your comfort zone by exploring your body more.Your genitals are not the only parts that need stimulation. You can multitask as well. Try playing with your nipples. Or how about caressing your inner thighs and stomach? You could even try pinching your neck and ears if you’re really out there. And you can get as creative and imaginative as you can be. You’re bound to have a satisfying outcome as long as you get the right sensations.
Use A Good Lube
Masturbating without a lubricant can get uncomfortable. And for some, it can get painful. So, make sure you have that trusted lube ready on your bedside. Using lotion as an alternative is a no-no, as it can quickly dry up on the skin. And it can even irritate. So, as per recommendation, water-based lube is more advisable.
Change your stroke
The conventional method for male masturbation often involves up and down strokes, which certainly gets the job done. However, for a more intriguing experience, consider exploring various rhythms and movements. Experiment with twisting as you stroke, pulling outward in a consistent motion, or even attempting stimulation with two hands or using three fingers exclusively.
Embrace experimentation to the fullest and don't hesitate to venture into unconventional techniques from time to time.
Use Sex Toys
And, of course, you can’t go wrong with the use of sex toys. You buy them for this very purpose. So bring out those stimulators, cock sleeves, and even anal beads. Stimulate yourself with these toys to get the most out of the experience.
Some Masturbation techniques to try
1. Tickling The Frenulum Method
The Frenulum is that little line that connects your glans with your foreskin. You shouldn’t use any external stimulation (no porn) since you want to focus on your own bodily experiences. It’s gonna take a while for you to reach orgasm, but when you do, you’ll have one of the most intense eruptions you’ve ever experienced. Lay down or sit back and relax all your body.
Get yourself hard. Put one finger on your frenulum and start massaging it with a gentle, circular motion.At first, you won’t feel much, but as you keep relaxing and becoming more present in your body your sensations will increase. Depending on how long time has passed since you ejaculated, it will take 10-20 minutes for you to cum. Just keep going with the same motion and enjoy the sensations. Resist the urges to stroke your whole penis or increase the speed. After a while, you’ll sense the frenulum orgasm slowly approach. Keep going.
Soon enough, you’ll experience a powerful orgasm which you can extend by continuing to rub yourself through it…!
One way to upgrade it is with edging. Get close to point of no return and let yourself calm down a bit. Repeat for a few times. The final time when you do ejaculate orgasm will be even more intense and that cum will shoot high and far!
2. The Rosy Palm Method
It’s called Rosy Palm technique because you’ll be rubbing the head of your penis against the palm of your hand. Again, be sure to take your time, relax your body, ideally not use the porn and if you’ll refrain from ejaculation for several days, sensations will be better.
Lay down or sit down and get yourself erect. Once erect, grab your dick in one hand and use your other lubricated hand to palm the head of your penis and gently circle it around.
Relax your body, close your eyes and focus on sensations. If you relax your penis you’ll feel intense pleasures but it will probably take quite a while for you to get anywhere close to ejaculation.
Enjoy it. Focus on how other parts of your body feel. Try moving that sexual energy around your body.
Keep this same stimulation, mix the intensity and when you’ll cum, you’ll do so powerfully.The sensations will be completely new and this technique will take a little time to master. The head of the penis is the most sensitive area on your penis, and it cannot bear too strong stimulation.
Be gentle and explore the glans.
3. Walking The Edge
Edging technique does require more skill than others. But it’s pretty intense!
The idea is that you bring yourself close to the edge, then calm yourself down…and let your sexual energy build up. The final time you’ll pump yourself hard and you’ll jump from the “metaphorical” edge with your hands open!
With edging, you can achieve those powerful cumshots that male pornstars do at the end of the scenes. Another side benefit of edging is that it can help you last longer during real sex.
- Get yourself aroused to 80-90% (100 is ejaculation)
- Clench and hold your PC muscles and breathe deeply to decrease arousal.
- Get to 60-70% and jerk yourself off till 90% again.
- Repeat this process at least 5x every time leading yourself closer to the edge… to 96…97…99…
- The final time: Stroke yourself hard and you’ll have crazy intense ejaculation which will last longer than usual!
Things You shouldn’t do When You Masturbate
- Applying excessive pressure to your penis
- Not using lubrication
- Experiencing feelings of shame
- Rushing through the process
Benefits of Masturbation
- Enhances self-awareness by identifying what turns you on and what turns you off
- Improves the quality of erections.
- Aids in practicing self-control.
- Provides effective training for increased stamina in bed.
- Contributes to overall immunity enhancement.
- Reduces certain health risks.
- Elevates mood and promotes a better sleep pattern.
- Enhances the appearance of the skin.
- Rejuvenates the body by channeling sexual energy.
- Diminishes self-conscious behavior.
Frequent masturbation is an excellent form of self-indulgence, but don’t rush it. And if you are in a relationship, don’t view masturbating as a sin or somehow not being faithful to your partner. We’re almost certain they self-indulge too.